Honestly, the couple of questions I posted for your H was more out of frustration (and that wanting to shake him feeling). I don't recommend that you go to him with those. They might be questions you pose to him eventually, but I think you really need to have 110% focus on you right now.
Originally Posted By: Wendylon
Once you're happier independently of H, then I think you'll be in a much better frame of mind to make decisions about your M. I still have an uneasy sense of your M and all his failings being a convenient hook for your own issues.
