Hi Andrew,

It sounds as if you're doing well. The fact that she seeks out the night-time cuddling his huge.

You could try a small affectionate gesture when she is in a good mood around you. It could be less than a kiss to start with.

I know all about intrusive thoughts as well. Like Rubytuesday, I do better with that if I've exercised.

Wise decision to go easy on the alcohol...


Me: 51
H: 52
T: 23 yrs
M: 19 yrs
S18, D16, S14 (special needs)
PA: 2003/2004
Piecing: 2004 on
Suspect H had EA: 8/2012-12/2012