Wendylon, I really appreciate your feedback. My H is not ready to be married to me or to anyone else. It seems he's enjoying the single life, and you're right, this letter would just be more of the same: me playing the role of the fixer/doer.
I only have 2 sessions left with Jody, so I will wait as much as I can before talking to her. I figured I could talk to her right after I return from my trip to CA.
They're forecasting snow in our area, so we'll see if my H can make it on Saturday. The way to where I live is treacherous in the snow. If I can't talk to him on Sat, I will try to get some alone time when we go to the show on Monday night.
Yes, he enjoys our time together. I feel best when I'm with him...it's relaxed and fun (at least now!--he can be a piece of work when he's in one of those foul moods.)
A 180 for me: My H said yesterday (he offered) that he would shovel the snow at our house but he didn't know when. The old me wouldn't have trusted him and would've called the snow removal company. Now, I will just let him do it and if we miss a house showing bc he didn't shovel, then he'll see the consequences.
