When tapestries of life get tangled in the loom.

[Big Bruce]

Thank you,
I won't ignore this advice.

Because it's going to get real messy, I now have to write my version of things, including her dirty little secrets too.
Of course when I court I'll STFU.

But how do you defend "libels" that have been written about you?
It makes me look like the guilty guy trying to deny his actions, when very little of it is actually true.

There are many false truths, but the worse for our case :
"I said that physical punishment for children is okay, etc...and I have been raised in a family used to violent physical punishment..etc.. and she is concerned for his safety etc.."
When all I maybe said in a conversation years ago was that I didn't agree with parents too lax, and that reasonnable spanking is okay for children with age capable of reason.

And so on...

And oh, by the way, she answered the email saying that she still thinks no reconciliation is possible and it's best to move on.

so much for a peaceful time of the year...