GG, I'm glad to hear you have decided to stand. 12 years of marriage is not something to just cut and run from.

I was cut off physically by my wife 9 months ago, so I understand your pain in this matter. GAL seems the only way around this.

Re temptation: Don't allow yourself to become so desperate for attention that you do something you later regret.

I really like your Christopher Robin sig line.

M: A really long time.
Crisis: 5 years.
She's still worth it.

Life is never made unbearable by circumstances, but only by lack of meaning and purpose. -Viktor Frankl