I just thought of one thing I did for GAL mysterious factor is that I would tell W is was leaving/going out/whatever and if she happened to care enough to ask why I would just say I was "meeting my own needs" and let her think whatever she wanted, rather than stating the explicit truth. I am a horrible liar and she knows me too well, so this was the truth, even if I was just going to hang out in my office for the evening, but as vague as I could muster...idk...ymmv.
Hang in there!
T^2
My wife and I have an understanding where we keep each other informed of where we will be, and when we will be home. I like this. So, unless I want her to start playing games or keeping secrets, I will not. At the same time, I agree this doesn't mean I have to offer up every little detail.
Question for everyone:
I've been considering signing up for dance lessons. Several months back I mentioned it to my wife, and asked if she was interested. She was not. Would me going on my own be good or bad for DB? I don't want her to think I'm moving on to other women.
M: A really long time. Crisis: 5 years. She's still worth it.
Life is never made unbearable by circumstances, but only by lack of meaning and purpose. -Viktor Frankl
