Tori, I know the kind of day you've been having so no worries. Thank you though for coming over to mine. I'm confused. At times she is distant and then other times close, close enough to kiss. So maybe I should try and see what happens. As MWD would say, experiment to see what works. Lol. If I get daring enough I'll report back.
Fortunately its easy to be cool around the SILs. And yes I'm aware that most will get back to W. So I'm treading very lightly. SIL1 (out of towner) has already asked how I'm doing. I said fair to good with a hint of confusion. She thinks W is distorted with her POV and that she's only getting half truths from her.
As far as drinking, I'm pacing myself and making weak drinks. I don't mind the calories. I'm trying to gain weight. Side note, I am at an all time high. .
RT, So nice to have you stop by. I've been reading your thread and posts. You're a great source of help. I went on a food and booze run earlier and decided that I was going to work out before hanging out with everyone. It has helped. I guess you've noticed I clean to destress too. How far away are ya? Lol.