RegretfulLA, I missed you too! all of you!
BTW: what's smaller than baby steps cuz that's where I think we're at.

keepgoing, I did have a good time at my sister's. the mood is much better between us. no tension like before.

labug, thank you! yes! living in the present is very difficult.

BklynMom, quality literature. I have my al anon books and I needed your reminder to go back to them instead of dwelling on my neg thoughts!

StubbornDyke, I'm wondering what's my next goal???

M 42 H 39
T10 (-2yrs separation)
S8 D5
DD 7/30/11 (EA&PA)
Reconciled 6/2013
Separation in works 1/2017