An onion, dance lessons and a Harley II

[subguy]

I am not sure why she was crying tbh. I assume it was the car and possibly a combination of seeing me after asking me for a favor. She did say "I guess I'm getting what I deserve". She was already tearing up when she walked over to where I was at. I also gave her a copy of her health insurance card, she said I thought you dropped me from the insurance. I said, no that if we divorce then I cannot keep you on my plan, we are still married. She said "oh".

I think she has painted me as an ass in her mind, to give her the energy to leave (it's easier to leave someone with whom I am mad at). This is several times now she has said "oh" yep I have not changed that much i'm still not an ass lol. I think this will have to sink in before we can start having any dialog.

I however will not pay to have her car repaired or give money for the purchase of a new one. This life lesson she will have to own. She said that I was obsessed with money?!?! Because I like to keep a certain amount in the bank for emergencies and then save up and pay cash for purchases that we want to make. Why make the bank rich paying interest. Believe me I was not controlling with money. I never questioned where she spent money.

Well, I hope it all works out for her. I don't like to see her struggle, heck I don't like for me to struggle and I have done my share of that, just in different areas.