well I sent my merry Christmas text and nothing. Now I sent it thinking I would not get a reply. So Im ok. It is just I know this is really not how she ever was.
Boy oh Boy she really must be angry.
Ok as i was typing this she replied. Same to U!. Nothing about the gift or anything but like I said i did not think she would say anything.
Well im not sure but my gut is telling me that I should just stop all contact with her till she cools off if she does. I do want to say I do want to work this out some how however I get these moments i think im am just tired of all this. I love her but I can not take this.
Is this how it starts for others?
Here is what I posted to your other thread on 11-05:
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I posted this before but I think you ignored it because it's not what you want to hear. SHE'S JUST BEING POLITE. That's it! You're trying to read some desire to reconcile into her texts and it's just not there. She has been completely consistent in her replies. Anytime you just text something light then she replies in a polite manner. Anytime you push it down a relationship type path she doesn't reply because she doesn't want you to get the wrong idea.
You're really coming off as desperate and clingy in your posts here, and I suspect that's how you're coming off to her as well. That's got to stop, it's not what she's looking for. You need to be strong, independent and exuding PMA whether it's in person, in emails, in texts or on the phone.
You are just repeating the same behavior over and over again. Your W is done, when you text something to her she's just texting back polite replies and you are trying to read too much into them. All these texts you're sending are just harming you because they are getting your hopes up that she's going to send some reply that means she's ready to get back together and that simply is not going to happen. You're still coming off as deperate and clingy. You need to move on, get a life, work on yourself. Start that by completely terminating the texts, that's the healthiest thing you can do for yourself right now.
