And maybe some ideas on what her PLL might be that I can work on in the meantime.
Women LOVE taking emotional tests and quizzes. My W was already packing and moving stuff to her new place when I asked her if she wanted to take a test to find out what her PLL was and she readily agreed. I read the questions and answers to her while she was doing other stuff and let her tell me which option she chose. At the end I calculated it up and told her what her PLL was, then read a little to her about it. And of course in doing so, I found out what her PLL was too.