Ok, guys, talk to me. Is is wrong to want to consider reconciliation in the future? Is it unhealthy? Is it silly? I know it is not what I should be focusing on, but you've seen my thread, I'm going to start DBing now that I have the book, etc. Does it actually happen with normal people that had safe, non-abuse relationships that didn't include any substance abuse or disrespect? Do people actually do this?
YUP people do it. It is not wrong to consider reconcilliation. It is wrong to EXPECT it. But not to HOPE for it. It is unhealthy to not DETACH.
Why do you think MWD has this site? Do you think she is here to encourage divorce?