Hi Spartan,
I agree how scary it is to see W so cold. Our talk was end of Nov. with the kids. Same thing...W so cold and matter-of-fact. My d10 brushed her off and came to me. They sense it all. AnotherStande is right too about spouse not even fully aware of what they are doing. It took me a while to realize that. Nevertheless...that makes it almost even scarier. Hang in there pal. You are a great daddy and they know it.


M17 yrs.
me49
xW47
d15
d11

BD1-Jul/11(Affair found out)
Therapy 9 months (tried 2)
BD2- May/12(sep)
Court Jul/13 - I got 50/50
Sold home - Aug/13
Court #2 - Dec/13
Court#3 - Apr/14 ... She lost again
We settled.