Ok, guys, talk to me. Is is wrong to want to consider reconciliation in the future? Is it unhealthy? Is it silly? I know it is not what I should be focusing on, but you've seen my thread, I'm going to start DBing now that I have the book, etc. Does it actually happen with normal people that had safe, non-abuse relationships that didn't include any substance abuse or disrespect? Do people actually do this?