My W called me today and asked me if she could use my truck to take our D to orthodontist appointment then take her to ball practice. I said yes use the the truck as much as you need. When I got home from work she was pulling in the drive way. When we both got out of the vehicles we talked for a minute. She was crying and upset, I was trying to validate her feelings. She is going to look for another vehicle instead of repairing ours. I told her she could use my truck as needed (a friend is going to let her use her car). I told her I was sorry that the car was going to be that expensive to repair. She said I guess I'm getting what I deserve. My reply was, I don't think you deserve anything bad to happen. I hope it all turns out good.
I don't think i gave to much, as she is still gonna have to figure out repair her's or purchase a new vehicle. I think I was friendly and supportive, not clingy and needy. I allowed just a nibble of cake not eating the cake. How did I do???
You can not change your past, but you can ruin a perfectly good present by worrying about the future.
