You got me thinking B. I want to change the dynamic.
I feel like catch 22. DB says to ignore their behavior but part of me wants to say when she is short or ignores me "did I do something to offend you etc"
Maybe that isn't the right choice of words etc
Also I guess I might of slipped up over break from pursue perspective.
We were txting and she brought up her stress and anxiety.
I replied back and said "we could take baby steps and start talking and communicating etc.
She didn't reply and ignored me. Not sure if that is perceived as pursuit but I tried planting a seed and I think I backfired