I don't blame you at all for speaking up. After all, he's not around that much and it's not like you deliberately turned the light on just to aggravate him. It would have one thing to open the door and peep out, but another to speak rudely to you. You are not a maid or servant in the home and it's certainly not a hotel. Yep, it's time that he start thinking about a place of his own.

I'm planning to go see The Hobbit over the weekend. I had heard it was good. I'm glad Chrstmas Day was good and you spent the day w/your children and h.

Sorry about the plans falling through for New Year's. Hopefully something else will come along.

The new year is right around the corner...you have a lot going on at the beginning of the year.

Enjoy the rest of your holiday.

Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to.
The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.