Thank you all for your support and advice. I know Mr Bond has good insight, and I have to keep shifting my perception of things, which in turn will change my answer to situations.
For the moment I have an appointment for the 1st Jan. to Skype with young Bruce. Do you think I should call before New Year's Day, when W is not home (without warning), and just ask plain if I can speak with my son?
Cheers, B.
Me:34 ; W:28 Son: almost 2. Married : 14 March 2009 DBomb : 18 June 2012 Separated since Jan 2012 (different countries) Same country and city since July 2012