Women will leave you if they don't feel that their emotional needs are met. An A is a possible symptom but not all the time. Many will even go for a guy who makes much less but will emotionally fulfill them if that's the case.
I don't know what "websites" you're looking at, but try opening up a book every now and then.
" and it makes perfect sense TO ME."
You've got much more to learn about male and female relationships. I'll read over your sitch as soon as I can.
M-43 W-40 2D - 9 and 5
Emotion, yet peace. Ignorance, yet knowledge. Passion, yet serenity. Chaos, yet harmony. Death, yet a new life.