Wow, I don't know whether to laugh or cry

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Mr Bond, I have found this post that you were refering to on my thread. Yes you are right I should add to this the following:

If you have heard the I love you but not in love with you speech, and you believe your Wife is not financially able to leave the marriage and go out on her own to fend for herself, then IN MY OPINION from all the reading I have done, there is MOST LIKELY someone else in the picture who has filled her head with false securities of how he will take care of her if only she leaves her marriage. I have read this on MANY psychology websites, and it makes perfect sense TO ME. I do not want to start you on a wild investigation to uncover an affair and end up causing more damage to your delicate situation. So, please accept my apology for not clairfying my position more clearly. I just believe that women will ride out a not so bad relationship in return for financial security, until some other man convinces them that he can support the,. That is my opinioni!