My wife wants to separate

[MrBond]

SM34,

I left a message for you on another post that you had "advised" on. It is a gross misinterpretation that there is another person whenever there is the ILYBNILWY speech. I suggest you don't spread things around until you've actually researched relationships in general and not just what you read on posts on the internet.

The fact that you didn't understand that to a woman, the emotional connection is much stronger than the physical shows your lack of understanding. Keep reading and learning.