i just saw your post, val. sorry, i forget that you moved forums.
i can see how your interaction with mom triggered lots of feelings about x and opened up some questions that you still have about the relationship. i wondered though if there is more coming up underneath the stuff about your M and your nephew.... that conversation w/ your mom sounded brutal...i know your big heart and your tendency is to care about everyone else... but i am wondering how you are feeling and taking care of you.
