New-agey is good. They new age people would tell me to allow and let go.
I will ask the L if I can at least avoid going to court on the case management date (1/22) and do things through the clerk. I was doing some research, and I think it can be done.
The letter is really good, but I will read it many more times before deciding what to do. I wish I had six months or so to DB. The trip to CA will help, bc I'll spend all this time with his family, but it's right before the case management date. And hanging out with him more would help too.
I don't have six months. I only have a few weeks. Two months of the waiting period were lost bc we had no contact...nothing to be done about that.
