thats what i was thinking also.thanks maybe i,m getting the hang of this lol. as it stands were separeted and she has split the girls against the boys. the boys,s 26 and youngest d,s boyfriend 21 dont want to talk to her until she can show some kind of remorse instead of blameshifting. they feel insulted when she does that. as far as the girls she has gaslighted her mom and them. sd19 d21 and i wonder if bpd is like diarreha it runs in the jeans.lol, seriously her mom blames me for her having an affair and is trying to force feed our son that his mom didnt cheat because were not married.
