Michelle’s post is also bang on for my sitch. My W woke up on Fathers Day (five weeks after separation) and said today “I am not wearing my wedding ring anymore”. Timing is everything. That is passive-aggressive, spiteful, intentional hurt at its finest. RLA, I think Breakdown is empathizing with you and is coaching you. Coaches need to be tough, not coddling. I am a coach (baseball & Hockey and a coaching/lead at work). Coddling does not work in any kind of coaching, it only holds a person to their least potential. Challenging and pushing is what works in any coaching.
M17 yrs. me49 xW47 d15 d11
BD1-Jul/11(Affair found out) Therapy 9 months (tried 2) BD2- May/12(sep) Court Jul/13 - I got 50/50 Sold home - Aug/13 Court #2 - Dec/13 Court#3 - Apr/14 ... She lost again We settled.
