I would wait until she contacts you. Only contact her if it's an emergency, child related or financial related. If you contact her just to be contacting her, it is looked upon as pursuing. Allow her to come to you when she's ready.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
