The other side to that coin TT is that this is an issue to the OP. A very important issue. So he does need to decide if it is a deal breaker. As you say. When confronted on the issue she lies. She does this full well knowing that it hurts the marriage. Yet to her this is a valid path to deal with her faults.
This will be something that she will need to work on if she wants to save her marriage.
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