My wife wants to separate

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I think I agree with you that it is emotional. Just as a man who A is in an affair, I am focusing too much on the sex. So, since we have established that it is emotional, is my strategy the same? I should be fun and living and supportive but more importantly emotionally 'available'. That way when I pull away later, she will have a harder time relying ailey on OM for her emotional.needs.

It makes sense that it is emotional because she hadn't even slept with him yet and she was already wanting a divorce. Without even trying the goods, so to speak.

So the sex is for him at this point, because she told me she didn't care.that she can't orgasm.

I kept help feeling lately that she is keeping me as plan B. I guess that is the reality isn't it? I know plan B is better so it doesn't bother me, but I need.tiff move on this soon.