CB, I think you can't edit once you've posted - maybe a moderator could change the color for her. but I had no trouble reading 25's post in full, and I think she is right.
I read the whole thread, and when reading Eric's original post and the replies (previous to 25's) the point sort of gets lost that he is obsessing over something that happened *before they were married*. (ok, engaged but not married.) and he said he would forgive her and they got married.
now since then, further info has come to light (mostly due to Eric's prying) but the question is: has she been unfaithful at any time since their marriage? if so then that is what he should deal with. if not, then he should let go of what happened before they were married, and treat it as if it happened before they even met.
I know he says that he "just wants to hear the truth" but the more he hears, the more he gets angry and pries further. no wonder she is afraid to admit anything.
if he wants to stay married, then he needs to find a way to put this behind them and concentrate only on their life together starting with their wedding.
