Is it possible to have a new relationship that is supposed to be replacing one that is supposedly sex starved (once I week or more I made sure she orgasmed) with a relationship where you don't orgasm at all??
Yes.
My wife's OM couldn't get it up without taking those magic pills and it didn't work very well even then apparently.
That didn't stop her being "in love" with him and carrying on an affair for 18 months, even if she wanted to start having sex with me again after a few months.
You seem obsessed with this orgasm thing. SM34, IT'S NOT ABOUT THE SEX!
The women here will correct me if I'm wrong but it's probably a far more emotional thing for her than a sexual one. If it were just about the orgasms she wouldn't be doing it.
BTW all that utterly deranged behaviour you mentioned above is completely "normal" for women (and men) when they're active in affairs.
GH31
Me: 46 W: 46 T: 23 M: 20 DS12 DD11 DS5
W left: 01/28/08 Discovered OM: 02/26/08 W back for 9 days: 04/08 W returned 05/21/08 EA/PA - 01/08-07/09 W's MLC 2008-2014 (realised this much later)