Detachment is brutally tough. I had a lot of trouble detaching until I finally actually felt detached enough to detach, if that makes sense. And I'm still not completely detached, even though I've reached the point where I've taken off my wedding ring and I am hoping my H moves out. It is called last resort technique for a reason. You can't fake it, and you won't be ready to do it until you've exhausted all your other options. You kind of have to start to actually move on. You are probably not there yet.


Me54, H53
M 23, T 25
S20, S18
BD: April 2024
Moved out: August 2024

Love means not giving up on someone even if they've given up on you.

"Being right is the booby prize of life." - Susan Page