W has been mean and ignoring all Holidays and for weeks leading up to it. Not wanting anything from me or doing anything for me and chewing me out for simple things....can't win for trying. Yet, a little while ago tonight she asked if I wanted a Latte for her to make. I turned it down and kind of ignored her as we watched Sound of Music with d10. She also did some of my laundry again. We agreed multiple times over the last several months that it was not to happen as she will only throw it back in my face for some guilt that she did it. She does it then complains and then I tell her not to do it. Then she does it again. She has made it clear we are done and there is no hope as recently as the other day. I have not asked or suggested anything about R in months. She just threw it out there as she was giving me crap about a few things all at once.
Looks like she has booked some days with her and the girls next week. I think they are going out of town for a couple days without asking/informing or running it by me. Don't know where...probably Niagara. Still, that is not cool.
Is she trying to get me to really dislike her...it may be working. Good plan.
M17 yrs. me49 xW47 d15 d11
BD1-Jul/11(Affair found out) Therapy 9 months (tried 2) BD2- May/12(sep) Court Jul/13 - I got 50/50 Sold home - Aug/13 Court #2 - Dec/13 Court#3 - Apr/14 ... She lost again We settled.
