Eyesopen - good point on asking kids some questions. My D7 has been asking me questions throughout the day but I'll remember that. Right before bed she asked me if I thought mom would really buy her a pool in her new house. My D loves thenwater and swimming I asked her what she meant and apparently W told her she would get a house with a pool in the backyard just for her. I responded with I hope so. My W didn't lift a finger with the pool in our last house and feel she's already lying but I'm not saying a thing. Just staying detached and support the kids.

Tori - Thanks for reading my sitch. It means a lot because I really value the opinions you give in other threads. And thanks for the prayers.


Personality is who the world sees, character is who you are

Turn your trials into your testimonies

Don't believe everything you think

Expectations are resentments waiting to happen