Eyesopen - good point on asking kids some questions. My D7 has been asking me questions throughout the day but I'll remember that. Right before bed she asked me if I thought mom would really buy her a pool in her new house. My D loves thenwater and swimming I asked her what she meant and apparently W told her she would get a house with a pool in the backyard just for her. I responded with I hope so. My W didn't lift a finger with the pool in our last house and feel she's already lying but I'm not saying a thing. Just staying detached and support the kids.
Tori - Thanks for reading my sitch. It means a lot because I really value the opinions you give in other threads. And thanks for the prayers.
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