My wife wants to separate

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wow i slaughtered that while typing on my phone. Here is the laptop version:

Labug thank you for your input. Yes the sledgehammer might be a but too much, but when I found the gifts my wife had bought with our money, for OM kids I was mad. I was mad and made it very clear that I was not happy and she is lucky I don't throw the toys out. She has gone to see OM now to give him the gifts and stay the night. I told her any gift he might have bought for daughter is not welcome in my house. She really doesn't understand why I am so hateful towards him!

She thinks that because it was an EA and she let me know before it was a PA that everything should be gravy between me and OM. It's like she broke up with me before dating him, like we are in high school. No! Your boyfriend talked my married W into leaving her husband and family. Since I would never do that to someone's wife, he is beneath me and always will be. She doesn't understand and thinks I need to get over it because i will need to be around him like at my daughters birthdays etc... To hell with that idea!