Labug thank you for your input. Yes the sledgehammer might be a but too much, but when I found the gifts my wife had bought with our money, for OM kids I was mad. I was mad and made it very clear that I was not happy and she is lucky I don't throw the toys out. She has fine to see OM now to give him the guftsbandbsoend the night. I told her any gift he.might have bought for outweighed us not welcome in my house. She really doesn't understand why I am so hateful towards him!
She thinks that because it was an EA and she let me know before it was a PA that everything should be gravy between me and OM. It's like she broke up with.net before dating him, like we are in high school. No! Your boyfriend talked my married aw into leaving her husband and family. Since unwound never do that to someone's wife, he is beneath me and always will be. She doesn't understand and thinks I need to get over it because i will need to be around him like at my daughters birthdays etc...
Me, H-34 now 38 W-32 now 35 T-13 now 18 years M-6 now 9 Daughter 3 years now 7 Bomb 11/27/12 - OM 1 year in house separation Reconciliation 12/2013. Healed now 2017