Sorry you are here. Have you read the Divorce Remedy book yet? I highly reccomend you do so. And being NC sounds like it is working, so do what works. Painful as it is for you, all you can do is get out of her way and let her make her own choices.
Detachment is your best friend. The gym can be your second best friend. Or doing things out in nature. Just take care of yourself. Do the right thing for your kids, but TAKE CARE OF YOU!
Aloha,
Wendy
Me 57 XH 58 Sons age 32 & 27 M:32 D final 9/12 Bought 10 Acres and Living the Dream!
