Is it wrong? Do you think it's wrong? I admit it can be humorous, but likely sad more than anything. For me, it was hard to reconcile my feelings of anger and desire to hurt the person trying so hard to hurt me, with the love that I had for her. For me, it came down to the fact that I did love her all those years, honestly, and since that was the case, I couldn't be happy about her mistakes.
Personally, while I disagree with my ex's choices and behaviors, I wish her well and choose not to look or communicate with her.
What was the plan for dealing with the addict? Is that a similar plan to what you have? You never stopped caring about your brother, right? Even when you knew you couldn't help him, you didn't wish that on him, right?
AJ
"Our lives begin to end the day we become silent about things that matter" MLK Put the glass down... "Yesterday I was clever so I wanted to change the world Today I am wise, so I am changing myself."
