is it wrong for me to laugh inside knowing her fantasy with her convict pos blew up in her face? ive wasted 8 months wining and dining and begging and crying. what the hell was i thinking? i had a brother that was a dope fiend and wathing the ex,s behavior its like dejavu! looking back i can see i was usually uptite and and neglected her a little but was always way more attentive then all of our friends are to their spouses.