Don't drink the kool aid he is serving up. He's baiting you so that you'll argue w/him. He's not happy about himself and the situation, so what better way than to make himself feel better? To send mean darts at you. Don't take his bait. He's trying to justify why he feels the way he does.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
