MrBond is right, this is no time for ultimatums. She tells you she's done with you and moving out, and you issue an ultimatum to her that your terms are X, Y and Z, or else. Or else what? She's leaving anyway! So it's one last controlling and manipulative shot as she walks out the door, one last reminder that you cannot and will not change.
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In this case, this kind of controlling...you will be faithful and so will I...I see as justified
This isn't how you save an R. You save it by changing yourself, by showing your GF you can be someone only a fool would leave. Not by doing the same exact behavior that landed you in your sitch in the first place.
You may think we're being hard on you, but we are trying so hard to open your eyes to what you should be doing. We're trying to help you.
