Spartan, so sorry to hear about the D talk with the kids, but just remember that your W is not thinking clearly right now. She's built an emotional wall around herself and this is why she is coming off as being so cold to you and the kids. The rationalization hamster is spinning away in its wheel. She's convinced herself that this is the best for her, the kids and even you. My W was the same, when we had the S talk with our kids she sat there like a statue made out of ice. But now I'm seeing shades of the old W, the woman that puts her kids before anything else. Try and be patient and try not to believe anything you're seeing or hearing from your W right now.
