There are no guns in fiancée's house. There are guns in my house, safely under locked away. There are guns in X's house (re. "Dad, if you came to get me and mom had a gun and wouldn't let me go, what would you do?" Son).

DD and future stepson are both 13 and are in the, "I hate my sister/brother" stage of adolescent development. The same response she gives her own brother.

The kids ages are; 9, 11, 13, 13, 16 (three boys, two girls). How long do you suggest fiancé and I wait to wed?

It's "The Brady Bunch."

"Fear is the mind-killer" Muad'Dib
Me 53, XW 44, DD 14, DS 12
Bomb and OM 12/15/06
Separated 01/02/07
Divorced 05/13/08
X married OM(OMH) 08/2009
Married 06/09/13