Oh, and I know that stating expecations like that is controlling. I get that I'm state the R is on my terms or not at all. In this case, this kind of controlling...you will be faithful and so will I...I see as justified. It's me stating that I'm still in the game if you are but we both have to play by the rules, if you don't want to play the game fairly then it is best we call it quits.


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