Still working on me

[sweetbabyred]

Yesterday H sent me a generic holiday text. I know it was generic because it said "Merry Christmas to you and your family." At least I'm still in the contact list, so I waited a few hours and just replied Merry Christmas.

H immediately responded, saying he was sorry for what happened and that he was sure the universe had great things in mind for me. I thanked him and he said he'd stop bugging me on the holidays and let his family contact me instead.

I replied that he wasn't bugging me, but it was his choice. H said that I seemed "cold" and he knew when to take a hint.

So passive aggressive, but I just replied that 3 weeks ago he told me I was never allowed to contact him again so I wasn't sure how/if I was supposed to react to him. H said he didn't know either, so I told him I'd let him take the lead and figure it out.

I also got two of my girlfriends to schedule a girls night on Friday before one of them is out of town for a week.

And we actually had some snow here on Christmas, so I had a pretty view from my window. I had a nice, relaxing day, even if I did miss being around H's family as we'd done the last 6 years.

I also made a list of all the little chores I'd like to do around the house before the new year begins. Mainly things like going through all of my toiletries to get rid of the old and make sure I use the new before they expire and to go through everything in my closet and get rid of anything that doesn't suit/fit me.

That'll still give me two weeks to relax before the spring semester starts.