Sunny, I'm very happy to come here today and read that your w joined you and your family yesterday. I'm sure it was difficult for her emotionally, but she did it.
Now, you need to step back and allow God to continue working on her. You can't fix her and keep your expectations at zero at all times. God has this covered...he needs you to continue working on you.
Happy Holidays!
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
