Sunny, Your w is having moments of clarity and I like the fact that you paused the tv to listen to what she had to say. The more you do this, the more she will open up. She needs validation and attention in this respect. Nice job!
I had to chuckle about the FIOS and phones w/a 2 year contract, as well as speaking to you about the kitchen and enjoying it for years to come...she's a very confused woman, but she still is tied to your relationship. That's good.
Sunny, you've had a lot of positives this week. Keep up the good work...but keep those expectations at zero at all times. Continue to drop those bread crumbs (friendship crumbs)! They are working their magic all of the time. As for the OP, they are like dope to the mlcer and it takes a lot of strength and endurance for them to break free of them, but in time, the affair should die a natural death. Don't stir the pot up w/conversations about him...just leave it be for now.
Enjoy the holidays. Christmas is a magical time and miracles always tend to happen around this special time. I hope that you and your family have a safe, blessed and very Merry Christmas.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
Sunny, Enjoy the holidays. Christmas is a magical time and miracles always tend to happen around this special time. I hope that you and your family have a safe, blessed and very Merry Christmas.
You are correct my friend - she told me on Friday night - I am not sure if I am going to your parents house with you and Mickey on Xmas I haven't made up my mind - I hope your not expecting me to go - ( if you remember she told me she wasn't going to my families house in October )I said I wasn't expecting anything - this seemed to get her mad - she said ok you can turn the tv back on -- really pissy -- I said are you angry - she said no but she was - my mom called and invited her on Saturday when I got home she said BTW Mom called and invited me for Xmas - then on Sunday after mass she said - our nephew had asked if she was going to come to grandmas house - she told him she didn't now - then 5 minutes later she said - "do you want me to come to your mom' house with you on Xmas - I said of course I want you to come - so she decided to come
So the miracle was my family was all together on Xmas - I couldn't be happier !!! Well I would love some lovin and affection and some hanky panky but I am a very happy man today - what a nice day we had !!!
Sunny
If someone decides there is no goodness in you they won't be able to see it. I'll take a BLT over a MLC anyday !!!
Very nice to hear Sunny. Enjoy the moments - life is dangerous and you won't get out alive
Funny how you get out of the way and let God do his work, things change a bit, right? Try to continue that and don't get greedy or otherwise in the way!!
Peace,
AJ
"Our lives begin to end the day we become silent about things that matter" MLK Put the glass down... "Yesterday I was clever so I wanted to change the world Today I am wise, so I am changing myself."
Sunny, I'm very happy to come here today and read that your w joined you and your family yesterday. I'm sure it was difficult for her emotionally, but she did it.
Now, you need to step back and allow God to continue working on her. You can't fix her and keep your expectations at zero at all times. God has this covered...he needs you to continue working on you.
Happy Holidays!
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
Very nice to hear Sunny. Enjoy the moments - life is dangerous and you won't get out alive
Funny how you get out of the way and let God do his work, things change a bit, right? Try to continue that and don't get greedy or otherwise in the way!!
Peace,
AJ
Yes AJ I was here in March why did it take me so long to listen !!!
Originally Posted By: snodderly
Sunny, I'm very happy to come here today and read that your w joined you and your family yesterday. I'm sure it was difficult for her emotionally, but she did it.
Now, you need to step back and allow God to continue working on her. You can't fix her and keep your expectations at zero at all times. God has this covered...he needs you to continue working on you.
Happy Holidays!
Yes Snod I am doing better and better I was down 82 pounds now in 3 days I gained 11 back !! -- I also am having my hair styled and colored --
Excpectiations 0 hope is on 1000 !!! As always thanks for all the help !!
Sunny
If someone decides there is no goodness in you they won't be able to see it. I'll take a BLT over a MLC anyday !!!
