Originally Posted By: nailinthecoffin
Thank you guys, I understand what all of you are saying. What should I do now? Just follow DB, LRT? Have you heard of EFT Couples Therapy? Should we go back to Couples Therapy?

Have you moved out?

Have you read DR?

If you aren't living together I would be going straight to LRT. That's what the book says.


Me: 46
W: 46
T: 23
M: 20
DS12
DD11
DS5

W left: 01/28/08
Discovered OM: 02/26/08
W back for 9 days: 04/08
W returned 05/21/08
EA/PA - 01/08-07/09
W's MLC 2008-2014 (realised this much later)