Minkerman: Never thought I'd make it here!

[minkerman]

Just in case there is still anyone around from (believe it or not) FIVE years ago....

Everything is 10/10. Whatever got into her, to make her fall head over heels into MLC, appears to be gone completely. She is fully committed to the relationship.

Whatever got into me, to make her lose interest in ME, also appears to be gone completely. I am (and obviously, always was!) fully committed to the relationship.

We have moved from Canada to a tropical island, and the change in climate has only increased the opportunities to do things outdoors. Cycling, paddleboarding, boating...or just sitting on a beach. We can do it all here.

The only reason I post this is to give hope to those just entering this difficult experience, or to those who are part way through it and just can't see light at the end of the tunnel.

If you stick to the principles religiously, you CAN make lasting, meaningful changes that will make you a better and more interesting person - either for your departed spouse or for the next relationship.

But the main person you make the changes for is YOURSELF. That is what makes the difference.

Good luck and keep DB'ing, friends!