They are her kids. They are 12 and 14. Surprisingly there really wasn't a fight with her last night over the incident. She came in and was only mad about me dropping off her youngest. Aside from that all she said about the other guy was that he's just a friend and that she has never cheated on me and will not while we are together. She lied to me and said that she was over at her mom's and he was online and they were both bored and decided to hang out. I didn't bother to mention that she was emotionally cheating on me already. I didn't mention that I already knew she had been planning to meet up with him all day. I didn't argue with her I just simply said "ok" and watched Bollywood movies till about 3am. At which time she started trying to initiate sex with me and then stopped out of nowhere and went to the living room and emailed the guy a poem she wrote. She came back in a little bit later and said "we've been having sex too much and with everything between us and my family I'm not in the mood to be romantic" I didn't respond.
It's been really weird. She's emailing the other guy a lot. Talking bad about me to her mom,sister and daughters,ignores me a lot during the day but at night time she will want to have sex and talk. That part really throws me for a loop. If you don't want someone why continue to have sex with them? On one hand I know I should be denying her advances but on the other hand I..well to be blunt..just really like sex.
I hang out here in the bedroom and do my own thing. I go see friends. o my kickboxing class once a week. Go to the gym. My usual activities and do my best to remain upbeat in a situation that is really crappy. I feel like I need to do more to really DB because thus far these are my usual activities. Basically I try to avoid being in the same room outside the bedroom for any prolonged amount of time.
She's at work right now undoubtedly talking dirty to the other guy and speaking of their time together last night. She claims she was going to tell me yesterday about that she met up with him. Whether or not she actually would have though remains to be seen but I have my doubts. She said they did have plans to go back to his house so he could show her some of his art work. I'm sure that was not his actual intent based upon their emails.
