So after my childish I got her a card from S and she didnt etc of the past few posts (I need to work on this still!)she sent me a text v late on saying:
'just a quick note to thank you for the card and pressies from S. They're lovely thank you'. She sent another text straight afterwards saying saying:
'H, i've only just seen the card from you. Thank u for sending it and what you said (it was a simple card but I wrote a small note thanking her and appreciated the work that she always put into our christmases together. Nothing mushy - you see another of my faults was that she always took care of the majority of xmas). She said 'I feel sad that it has come to this and she is sorry for hurting me. I hope we're always friends for lots of reasons but esp the bond we have thru our boys. Youngest S in particular and the heartache we've shared with all that. No-one else understands that but us, I hope it always holds us together. Thank you x'
Well i got choked because it was a nice text and I appreciated it a lot. I would like to know:
a) did I do the right thing putting a small msg in the card thanking her? b) should i respond and if so how? c) is this a a good text from W or is it basically re-inforcing her feelings that she is thru. What do you think?
If I did the rong thing please be brutal. I am still emtional right now and perhaps not having the clearest thoughts.
